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✦ CURRENTLY IN MOTION...

✦ CURRENTLY IN MOTION...
✦ cancun finally happened cancun was beautiful, emotional, exciting and definitely unforgettable ;) ✦ currently creating i’m updating my blog, magazine, scrapbook, recipe book and 2000s-inspired wishlist boutique. i’m also journaling again and slowly writing a story of my own. ✦ currently reflecting i’m learning that love is more than a feeling—it’s honesty, accountability and the choices you make when things get uncomfortable. ✦ currently craving cooler weather, brown leaves, oversized sweaters, uggs, warm drinks and fall in georgia <3

Thursday, August 27, 2026

✦ unpopular opinion: cheating should be your sign to leave ✦

i believe you should leave the first time someone cheats. i say this as someone who stayed, forgave the betrayal and was cheated on again despite promises that it would never happen.

while i was in that relationship, i started hating that person for what they continued to do—and eventually, i started hating myself for choosing to stay. infidelity changed the way i loved them, and the hurt turned into resentment, depression and insecurity.

i will work through problems with the person i love, but once they step outside our relationship and lie about it, i have to choose myself and leave.



what do you think—can a relationship truly recover after infidelity?

if you stayed after someone cheated, what would they need to do to rebuild your trust?

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